
ORCID: 0009-0002-0680-0837
I. Introduction and methodology
This study employs a qualitative case study methodology, considered the most appropriate for the in-depth analysis of a complex phenomenon in a real-life context „especially when the boundaries between phenomenon and context are not clearly evident” (Yin, 2014, p. 16). Through this approach, it was possible to capture the psychosocial, family and institutional dimensions of minors from families in which one or both parents are military personnel, combined with the rigidity inherent in military life, beyond what quantitative data could reveal.
Data collection was carried out through the triangulation of multiple complementary sources and techniques, including: clinical observation during hospitalisation, a social history obtained through semi-structured interview with the minor and representatives of the re-education institution, analysis of relevant documents (the legal file, medical record and school record) and the administration of standardised psychological tests: the EPQ Questionnaire (Eysenck, 1975), the Temperament, Dynamics and Personality Inventory — TDP (Florian, 1996), the Raven Progressive Matrices (Raven, 2000) and the Prague Test for distributive attention (Enea & Dafinoiu, 2017, p. 69).
The study does not permit statistical generalisations, its limitations being duly acknowledged. Nevertheless, its value lies in the depth of the analysis and its relevance for professional practice in the field of military social work.
Subject code: M.N., nicknamed „Mefisto” | Age: 16 years (b. 2005)
The subject’s deviant trajectory began at the age of 11, coinciding with the peak of his father’s activity in theatres of operations:
- June 2016: assault and other violence — altercation with a classmate;
- May 2017: insults directed at a teacher, outside school premises;
- June 2018: destruction by arson of the class register;
- July 2018: expulsion;
- July 2018 – July 2019: placement in a Juvenile Re-education Centre;
- August–September 2020: computer crime (hacking), reflecting a specialisation of his modus operandi.
II. Anamnestic analysis and military context
1. Family dynamics
The father: a career military officer who served in theatres of operations for 24 months (2016–2018) during the critical pre-adolescent period of the minor (aged 11–13). Upon returning (2019), the father manifested specific post-traumatic stress (PTSD) symptoms: hyperexcitability, excessive disciplinary rigidity, difficulties in emotional recalibration and episodes of post-mission aggression.
2. Collective trauma
The mother died in 2018, meaning that during and after the father’s mission, the minor was compelled to adopt the role of „surrogate parent” — a burden that exceeded his adaptive resources.
3. Health status
Medical history: meningitis at age 7, paroxysmal episodes, fainting spells. Following the mother’s death, he made a suicide attempt through medication ingestion. He exhibits frequent episodes of extreme rage directed at destroying surrounding objects.
4. Academic trajectory
Early school years marked by difficulties in integration. In years 5–8 of school, he progressed very well, distinguishing himself in the exact sciences. He participated in school clubs but was perceived as marginalised by peers and teachers.
5. Modus operandi and hobbies
M.N.’s meticulous planning and self-discipline can be interpreted as an unconscious imitation of his father’s military rigour, but oriented towards destruction (a mechanism of identification with the aggressor or with the absent role model).
He listens to rock music and is passionate about IT and programming. During his time in the re-education centre he read science fiction, religious and IT literature. He is fastidious, attentive to his appearance, with a strong desire to be noticed. He does not consume alcohol, drugs or tobacco.
This represents a refuge in a controllable world, as opposed to the unpredictability of military family life.
6. Behaviour during placement at the re-education centre
He is affected by the lack of family visits. He participates actively in activities and reads extensively, but prefers isolation. He expressed the desire to sit the National Assessment and attend a good secondary school.
7. Current social environment
He lives with his girlfriend of the same age and supports himself through occasional work and IT projects. The relationship is conflictual with the girlfriend’s parents. He no longer maintains contact with his father or siblings. He is part of an online community of IT professionals.
Father (military): External mission 24 months (2016–2018) → Post-mobilisation PTSD (2019)
M.N. (Mefisto): Assault (age 11) → Insults (age 12) → Arson + Expulsion (age 13) → Re-education centre (age 14) → Hacking (age 15)
Mother: Death 2018 — critical trauma for the minor
Figure 1 reveals a clear correlation between the prolonged absence of the father in theatres of operations (24 months, 2016–2018) and the acceleration of the minor’s deviant trajectory, with a critical point in 2018 (the mother’s death, expulsion, placement in a juvenile re-education centre).
III. Psychological assessment
1. Techniques and instruments used
- Observation, anamnesis, interview (David, 2006; Mitrofan, 1994)
- EPQ Questionnaire (Eysenck, 1975)
- TDP Inventory (Florian, 1996)
- Raven Progressive Matrices (Raven, 2000)
- Prague Test — distributive attention (Enea & Dafinoiu, 2017)
2. Results and interpretations
- Marked introversion, emotional instability, depressive traits, egocentrism.
- Tendencies towards detachment, low self-control, affective and educational deficiencies.
- Superior intelligence, high capacity for concentration.
- Behaviour typical of developing emotionally unstable personality disorder, with impulsivity, depression, self-destructive reactions and a diffuse self-image.
- Self-discipline in hacking activities represents an identification with the absent military model (the father), used within a destructive framework — a defence mechanism. Computing serves as compensation, providing the control that the minor does not experience in family life.
IV. Psychological intervention
- Emotional rebalancing following the loss of the mother.
- Individual counselling with an empathetic, non-punitive approach.
- Individual psychotherapy (not group therapy).
- Behavioural therapy and social skills training.
V. The role and intervention of the military social worker
In view of the minor’s psychosocial vulnerability, criminal history and disorganised background, the intervention of the military social worker is essential for the prevention of recidivism and his social reintegration.
1. Family and community support
- Identifying members of the extended family (grandparents, relatives) who can contribute to a minimum level of affective or material support.
- Facilitating access to social services designed for minors lacking family support.
- Mediating the conflictual relationships in the minor’s life (Neamțu, 2003, pp. 347–362).
- Collaboration with the military unit: the social worker contacts the „Psychology and Religious/Social Assistance” structure of the father’s unit in order to include the entire family in a rehabilitation programme.
- Attachment theory: the intervention focuses on repairing the father–son bond, affected by prolonged periods of separation (the military deployment cycle).
2. Educational reintegration
- Counselling the minor to re-enrol in a form of education, preferably a secondary school with a science or vocational IT profile.
- Collaboration with teaching staff and school counsellors for educational adaptation and continuous monitoring.
- Supporting participation in extracurricular activities and IT competitions.
3. Psycho-emotional and behavioural support
- Permanent collaboration with the psychologist to support the therapeutic process.
- Organising sessions for the development of social skills and emotional management (anger management and frustration management programmes).
- Finding a mentor or resource-adult, preferably from the IT field, for guidance and motivation.
4. Prevention of recidivism and legal reintegration
- Support with legal proceedings for the rehabilitation of the criminal record, on the basis of positive progress.
- Involvement in workshops raising awareness of legal and social responsibility (Țurcan & Țurcan, 2013).
- Educational supervision in the community, in collaboration with reintegration specialists.
The re-education of placed minors requires systematic interventions through socio-educational programmes (p. 28), counselling for the assumption of responsibility (pp. 121–131) and adaptive measures for those without criminal liability (pp. 135–139) (Ministerul Justiției & UNICEF, 2005).
5. Support for independent living
- Support in accessing qualification courses or internships in the IT field.
- Support in managing personal finances, achieving residential autonomy and establishing healthy routines.
- Counselling in interpersonal relationships and the consolidation of a positive identity.
VI. Social intervention plan
| Domain | General objective | Specific objective | Activities / Services | Responsible | Period | Indicators |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Family | Rebuilding family bonds | Reconstruction of parental authority | Father–son mediation; counselling focused on the trauma of the father’s absence | Military social worker + Military Unit Psychologist | 1 month | Number of actively involved relatives / Quality of relationship as described by the minor |
| Educational | School reintegration | Enrolment in a form of education adapted to the minor’s capacities | Contact with school inspectorate, vocational counselling, support with required documentation | Military social worker + school counsellor | 2 months | Minor enrolled in the educational system / School attendance > 90% |
| Psychological | Emotional and behavioural support | Reduction of emotional crises and development of self-control | Individual counselling, collaboration with psychologist, referral to individual behavioural therapy | Psychologist + military social worker | Ongoing | Reduction of aggressive manifestations (by 50%) / Improvement in periodic assessment scores |
| Social–community | Vocational mentoring | Identifying a mentor (possibly an IT specialist from the military/communications sector) | IT activities in day centres, volunteering, integration into an adolescent support group | Military social worker + partner NGO | 3–6 months | Number of completed activities / Degree of satisfaction expressed by the minor |
| Legal – minor protection | Prevention of recidivism and support for legal reintegration | Informing the minor of the consequences of his actions and fostering accountability | Restorative justice sessions between father (representative of the law) and son | Mediator + military social worker | 3 months | Absence of incidents / Active participation in sessions |
| Personal autonomy | Building skills for independent living | Establishing healthy routines and managing personal finances | Basic financial education, support in accessing lawful employment, counselling on personal relationships | Military social worker | 6–12 months | Residential stability / Personal budget managed / Autonomy reports |
VII. Discussion and analysis
The case of M.N. demonstrates that the military support system must extend beyond the active service member, including proactive monitoring of children during external missions.
The minor’s deviance was not merely an act of rebellion, but a cry for help in the context of a „temporary single-parent family” and unprocessed grief.
In military families, some studies have found that minors are more likely to exhibit externalising behaviours during parental deployment against the backdrop of heightened anxiety related to the mission context and the safety of the military family member. In this regard, Reed et al. (2011, p. 1680) highlight the possibility that elevated rates of violent behaviour observed in some children from military families may be the result of disproportionate exposure to portrayals of war in the media. These media representations frequently emphasise physical confrontation and membership of a combat group, which may lead to the internalisation of violence as a valid mechanism for resolving conflict.
The main factors that can negatively influence the psychosocial well-being of children from military families include:
- Frequent relocations and prolonged absence of one parent in theatres of operations (Blamey et al., 2019; Chandra et al., 2010; Gershoff et al., 2007).
- Health problems of parents returning from missions — when a parent presented with PTSD, children (aged 4–12) manifested elevated levels of anxiety, fear and behavioural problems (Veri et al., 2021).
- Death of a parent in combat — the minor processes the loss with great difficulty, such that the abrupt transition from pride in having a „hero-father” to the reality of his loss can profoundly affect the minor’s psychological equilibrium and behaviour. In some cases, this trauma may develop into a state of permanent alertness or a desire for revenge and destruction, used as dysfunctional mechanisms of defence or for processing repressed anger.
Children from some military families are more vulnerable to neglect or abuse when one parent is mobilised to a combat zone („Vulnerable Families”, 2007). In a retrospective analysis of routinely collected child protection data, American researchers observed that the deployment of one parent to theatres of operations was associated with a 40% increase in the rate of child safety incidents in such families.
Along similar lines, Rentz et al. (2007, p. 1203), in „Effect of deployment on the occurrence of child maltreatment in military and nonmilitary families”, demonstrated through analysis of data over a three-year period (2004–2007) that the risk of neglect of children in military families is three times greater during periods of mobilisation. Furthermore, the rate of neglect increases fourfold during missions, while the risk of physical abuse is approximately twice as high during the military parent’s absence compared with periods when they are at home.
Children from military families also represent a particularly vulnerable population, presenting a substantially higher risk of developing social and mental health problems compared with children from civilian backgrounds. The mobilisation of one parent can accentuate these risks at all developmental stages (Opie et al., 2024, p. 1963). Cramm et al. (2019) note that the emotional vulnerability of children from military families stems from their natural exposure to „certain elements of the military family lifestyle, characterised by a unique triad of mobility, family separation and risk” (p. 1725).
Regarding bullying in the school environment, children from military families are exposed to school aggression far more frequently than children from non-military families. According to the „Military Family Lifestyle Survey”, „one in three respondents from active families (32%) with at least one child enrolled in the education system reported that the minor had been the victim of harassment on school property in the 12 months preceding the survey” (Blue Star Families, 2023, p. 7).
It is therefore imperative that these children benefit from constant monitoring of their socio-emotional well-being and from adequate support mechanisms. The results of studies conducted confirm that the risks identified in the case of children from military families are comparable to those of minors from civilian backgrounds in situations of vulnerability. An understanding of these risk factors, combined with knowledge of protective factors, will contribute to grounding prevention strategies and increasing the effectiveness of military social work interventions.
As a NATO member state, the Romanian Army has participated in numerous external missions with „over 40,000 military personnel rotated through Afghanistan, Iraq and the Balkans over more than two decades” (Jipa, 2025). The longest external mission in which Romania participated was Operation Enduring Freedom and ISAF, with a contingent of over 32,000 military personnel, of whom „27 Romanian soldiers lost their lives in combat actions and over 200 were wounded” (Cozmei, 2021). In 2025, „approximately 1,500 Romanian military personnel are participating in international missions under the auspices of NATO, the EU or the UN” (TVR INFO, 2025).
At present, there are no official data on the parental status of Romanian military personnel participating in external missions, nor data on the systematic monitoring of this category by the relevant institutions. This absence of official evidence makes it impossible to accurately quantify the total number of children facing the absence of a mobilised parent. Nevertheless, media sources report that „approximately 150 children of soldiers killed or wounded in various military missions, actions or operations received Christmas gifts on Tuesday” (Unturică, 2025).
VIII. Conclusions
The case study of minor M.N. highlights a series of cumulative risk factors — the father’s 2-year absence (deployed on military missions), military rigidity, post-traumatic stress disorder, the mother’s death, emotional traumas and the lack of consistent support — which contributed to a deviant trajectory. Nevertheless, high intelligence, healthy interests and a desire for achievement in areas such as IT can be transformed into protective factors through an integrated intervention plan.
The military social worker plays an essential role in this process, functioning as the link between institutions, the family and the minor, in order to achieve his identity and social reconstruction.
Recommendations:
- Maintaining close collaboration between the psychologist, the military social worker and the school counsellor.
- Monitoring behavioural progress through standardised instruments.
- Encouraging the minor’s participation in extracurricular projects related to IT and the exact sciences.
- Providing a positive mentor from the IT field to support vocational development.
- Promoting family reunification under safe conditions or identifying a resource-adult to fulfil a parental function.
- Implementing screening protocols for the children of military personnel returning from theatres of operations.
- Family counselling focused on unprocessed grief and the trauma of separation.
IX. Identity protection and ethical considerations
In accordance with the principles of research ethics in social work and the provisions of legislation on the protection of personal data (GDPR — EU Regulation 679/2016) and Law no. 272/2004 on the protection and promotion of children’s rights, the identity of the minor has been anonymised. All directly identifying data — name, locality, school and military unit — have been replaced with codes or omitted, while data that could permit direct identification of the individual have been modified or generalised, with the aim of preserving the clinical and social relevance of the case presented.
The presentation of this case for academic and professional purposes was carried out in compliance with the principle of confidentiality, which constitutes an essential foundation of the relationship between the military social worker and the beneficiary, in accordance with the provisions of the Code of Ethics of Social Workers in Romania (Colegiul Național al Asistenților Sociali din România, 2008). The exclusive purpose of the article is formative, and it aims to contribute to the development of professional competencies among specialists working with military families and vulnerable minors, without implying any form of stigmatisation or harm to the individuals involved.
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